How to Do Blowjob? Something You Should Know
Would you like to give your partner a blowjob that makes him tremble? Take a look at this guide to blowjob from us! Whether you're new or experienced, you'll learn something new in it.
Ready to drive him crazy? Let's start!
Before Blowjob
A.Communicate with Each Other
Before you start, the most important thing is to communicate with each other. A small talk can give you two a deeper understanding so that you can know what your partner likes. If he is more submissive, you can give him instructions such as "sit down and take off your pants". If he's less inclined to be forceful, you can communicate something about what you're doing or ask questions like, "Do you like it when I..." and "How are you feeling right now?"
B.Hygiene
Hygiene issues are important. It's generally a good idea to clean up a bit before engaging in oral sex. Some men are not in the habit of cleaning their penis and testicles with soap and water, which is likely to lead to harboring dirt as well as bacterial growth.Not only does this make oral sex uncomfortable for the person having it, but it also increases the risk of spreading transmissible sexually transmitted diseases.So,why not take a shower before you start?
C.Creating an Atmosphere
It's inevitable that you might be a little nervous before you start getting intimate, put on some relaxing music, keep the room at the right temperature, and watch an erotic movie to unwind. Too much tension may keep you both from enjoying yourselves.A few whispers and flirtations so you two can get into the swing of things.
D.Foreplay
Create a sensual and sexy mood that'll get him hard before you start giving him a blowjob. You could do this by kissing, licking, and touching his other erogenous zones, like the nipples, perineum, neck, thighs, and ears.
Meanwhile,keep your partner's shaft wet.There are so many ways to do this.You can spit above his shaft,or you can spit onto your hand when giving him a handjob.And you can also use your favorite lube to lubricate. A dry handjob may cause your partner discomfort or pain, so the wetter the better!
During Blowjob
A. Head and Frenulum
The glans and the tether below the glans of the penis are very sensitive and this area is covered with nerve endings. When you swirl your tongue around this area, you're partner is bound to go crazy. If you're new to this or your partner is bigger, you can pump his stem with your hand and tease his glans and tether with your mouth. You can also take most of the penis into your mouth if you want to try something else.
B.Lips and Teeth
Sometimes you'll hear the phrase in a movie or TV show, "Ah, teeth!" So make sure you watch your teeth during oral sex, wrap them around your lips and make sure you don't bite! It's clear who will win when hard teeth and penis bump into each other. Just imagine you are sucking on a popsicle!
You can practice with a dildo first to ensure that you don't injure your partner by making a mistake in the real world.The Pocket Rocket from QUTOYS is perfect for oral sex novices to practice with, and is small enough to not cause intense discomfort.
C.Eye Contact
During the blowjob, maintain eye contact with your partner, a teasing look paired with a churlish expression that shows your charms from the bottom up. Believe me, your partner's penis will be harder.
D.Deep Throat
Some people love Deep Throat, but some people hate it. Deep throating undoubtedly brings out special feelings, but some people will struggle with the gag reflex it brings out. For this problem, you can start by practicing with a toy. The Ken and the Tiny Ares from QUTOYS is perfect for beginners, being smaller in size and you can start easier.
E.Massaging the Balls
If your partner likes to have their testicles massaged, you can gently massage them with your fingers in a wave-like motion. This will create a running water-like effect. Alternatively, you can gently squeeze hard and then release. You can also use a vibrator to tease his testicles.
F.Cock Rings
Sometimes, for various reasons, the penis may not be able to get an erection or maintain an erection for a long period of time, and this is the reason why cock rings appear.This nifty toy is worn on the penis and is able to keep the penis erect longer by constricting the blood inside the penis.The even better news is that the penis ring is not only suitable for oral sex, but also for penetrative sex!
QUTOYS also has penis rings for sale, such as this 10 Thrilling Vibration 3 Thrusting Silicone Cock Ring Anal Vibrator, which is sure to give you and your partner a different experience.
G.Temperature Play
Temperature play is the use of hot and cold objects to create different sensory experiences. Different objects will give different stimulation to the nerves of the skin thus creating pleasure. Because this pleasure is unpredictable, it can be more exciting for some people. Ice cubes, candles, hot water or cold/hot sensory lubricants can be used.
After Blowjob
After blowjob, you can share your feelings with each other, such as "that was a sexy look you just gave me", or you can share what you need to pay attention to just now, in order to prepare for a better experience the next time. Remember, in addition to passion, the warmth of the aftermath is also a part of the distance between each other. If there is no further sex, remember to perform a prompt cleanup. This will effectively reduce the growth of bacteria.
