All You Need to Know About Suction Cup Dildo Positions and Techniques

Holding your toy can sometimes feel like work. A suction cup dildo changes the game. It’s the key to unlocking true hands-free pleasure. Get ready to turn any room in your house into a personal playground of possibilities.

Where to stick your suction cup dildo

The magic of a suction cup is simple: it needs a perfect seal to create a vacuum. That means the surface must be solid, smooth, and non-porous. Forget about textured drywall, porous wood, or the grout lines between tiles. Once you know that one rule, your whole home opens up with creative options.

• The bathroom is a popular spot for a reason. Smooth shower walls, glass shower doors, and porcelain tub rims are perfect for suction cups. Mirrors offer a stable vertical surface with a great view. Even the closed lid of your toilet seat can be a surprisingly effective horizontal mount.
• Your bedroom floor, if it's hardwood, laminate, or tile, is a super-stable base for floor-based positions. A smooth wooden or metal headboard can work for in-bed play. Mirrored wardrobe or closet doors are another fantastic vertical option, often with a full-body view.
• A sturdy chair with a smooth wood or plastic seat is a game-changer for riding. Tables and kitchen counters offer surfaces at different heights. You can even stick your toy to the side of a washing machine. A running cycle will add some fun vibrations.
• If your surfaces are not cooperating, create your own. A small sheet of plexiglass or acrylic from a hardware store is a portable, smooth surface you can put on a soft bed or carpet. For a quick bed hack, grab a large metal mixing bowl, flip it upside down, and stick the toy to the smooth bottom.
  

5 Best Suction cup dildo positions for Solo Play

Going solo with a hands-free toy is the ultimate form of self-exploration. You get to control the pace, the depth, and the angle. These Suction cup dildo positions are designed to help you find your sweet spot, with a special focus on targeting the prostate (P-spot).

Position 1: The Rider (Floor-Mounted Squat)

This position offers maximum control over depth and speed. It’s a workout, but the payoff is huge.

• Step 1: Securely attach your dildo to a smooth, hard floor. Tile, laminate, or hardwood works best.
• Step 2: Apply a generous amount of your favorite water-based lubricant to yourself and the toy.
• Step 3: Stand over the dildo with your feet shoulder-width apart.
• Step 4: Slowly bend your knees and lower yourself down in a deep squat, guiding the toy in. You can use your thigh muscles to bounce, grind, or ride at any speed you want.

Position 2: The Classic Kneel (Floor-Mounted Doggy Style)

This is a favorite for deep, targeted prostate massage, as it mimics a classic anal position.

• Step 1: Secure the dildo to the floor.
• Step 2: Get on all fours (hands and knees) over the toy, just like in a traditional doggy style position.
• Step 3: Lube up, then slowly lower your hips to slide onto the dildo.
• Step 4: Once you're on, rock your hips back and forth. You control the depth with every movement. Be aware, this position can be tiring for the knees after a while, so a mat or pillow underneath might feel better.

Position 3: The Wall-Mount (Standing Surrender)

This is a great option for a quick session or for anyone who loves playing in the shower.

• Step 1: Stick the dildo to a vertical surface, like your shower wall, a mirror, or a smooth door. Height is key: start with the toy around your tailbone level.
• Step 2: Stand with your back to the toy and apply lube.
• Step 3: Bend your knees slightly and slowly back up, guiding yourself onto the toy.
• Step 4: You can stand and thrust, or bend over more at the waist to change the angle. Feel free to hold onto the wall for balance.

Position 4: The Captain's Chair (Chair-Mounted Straddle)

This position is a lifesaver for your legs and joints, allowing for longer, more intense sessions.

• Step 1: Find a sturdy, stable chair with a smooth seat (wood or plastic). A flimsy stool will not be fun.
• Step 2: Secure the dildo to the center of the chair seat.
• Step 3: Straddle the chair, facing the chair's backrest.
• Step 4: Lower yourself onto the dildo and grab the backrest. The backrest gives you amazing support and leverage. You can bounce, rock, and ride with full force without your legs giving out.

Position 5: The Relaxed Rider (Bed/Floor Hack)

This position is for when you want to be lazy but still get off. It’s perfect for the bed or a soft carpeted floor.

• Step 1: Lie on your back on the floor or your bed.
• Step 2: Place a portable mount (like that inverted steel bowl or a plexiglass sheet) on the surface between your legs. Secure the dildo to it.
• Step 3: Place a pillow or a sex wedge under your hips. This tilts your pelvis up, creating the perfect angle for anal entry.
• Step 4: Bend your knees and pull your legs up toward your chest, then lower yourself onto the toy. You can also try a variation lying on your side.

Top 5 Suction cup dildo positions with a partner

Bringing a toy into the bedroom can be an amazing way to explore new fantasies together. A suction cup dildo acts like an extra set of hands—or an extra cock. It allows for Suction cup dildo positions that are physically impossible for just two people, creating a "DIY threesome" vibe.

Position 1: The "Roast" (Mutual Oral & Riding)

This is a classic for simultaneous pleasure, letting one partner ride while the other receives oral.

• Step 1: Secure the dildo to a low, stable horizontal surface. The floor, a sturdy stool, or a purpose-built dildo mount works well.
• Step 2: Partner A (the "giver") kneels or squats over the dildo, riding it hands-free.
• Step 3: Partner B (the "receiver") sits on the edge of the bed or a chair, or lies on their back, in front of Partner A.
• Step 4: Partner A performs oral sex on Partner B, all while riding the dildo.

Position 2: The Harness Hack (The Wearable Toy)

This technique turns your stationary toy into a strap-on, combining the best of both worlds.

• Step 1: Take any standard O-ring style strap-on harness.
• Step 2: Push the head of the dildo through the O-ring from the back.
• Step 3: The wide, flat suction cup base will sit flat against the harness, holding it perfectly and securely in place.
• Step 4: Partner A wears the harness and can now peg Partner B in any position you both love, like missionary or doggy style.

Position 3: The Double-Up (Front and Back)

This is a "DIY threesome" fantasy that allows for double penetration and a lot of intimacy.

• Step 1: Secure the dildo to a vertical surface, like a solid headboard or a wall.
• Step 2: Partner A (the "receiver") backs up onto the wall-mounted dildo.
• Step 3: Partner B (the "giver") stands in front of Partner A, facing them.
• Step 4: Partner B penetrates Partner A anally from the front, while Partner A is also filled by the dildo from behind. This allows for double penetration and intense, face-to-face eye contact.

Position 4: The Spectator Sport (The Mirror Mount)

This is a hot, visual-focused position, perfect for guys who love to watch (and be watched).

• Step 1: Secure the dildo to a sturdy, full-length mirror.
• Step 2: Partner A rides the dildo, either facing the mirror or with their back to it.
• Step 3: Partner B stands or sits where they can watch all the action in the mirror.
• Step 4: Partner B can masturbate, give dirty talk, or touch Partner A. The visual feedback of watching the penetration is the main event.

Position 5: The Side-by-Side Ride

This is for when you both want to ride at the same time.

• Step 1: You need a large, smooth horizontal surface, like a dining table, kitchen island, or a large sheet of plexiglass on the floor.
• Step 2: Secure two dildos side-by-side, with enough space for both of you.
• Step 3: You and your partner can mount your respective toys, riding them next to each other.
• Step 4: This allows you to kiss, touch, and masturbate each other while sharing the hands-free riding experience.

Some Techniques You Might Not Know

You've got the locations and the positions. Now, let's talk about the small adjustments that make a huge difference. These tips will take your session from good to incredible.

Beginner Technique: The Unbreakable Seal

A toy that slides down the wall is the ultimate mood-killer. A strong suction is a process. First, the surface must be clean. The pro-tip: Use a little moisture. A small amount of water or water-based lubricant on the rim of the cup creates a much stronger vacuum. Saliva also works. Press down hard from the center, then the edges, to push all the air out. Hold it for 30 seconds.

Intermediate Technique: Mastering Your Angle

You don't just "hit" the prostate (P-spot); you have to aim for it. Start with a dildo that has a distinct curve. Horizontal mounts (floor, chair) give you the best angle control. When you're riding, lean your torso forward; you will feel the curve press right against that spot. If you're on your back, use a pillow or sex wedge under your hips. This "tilts" your body, changing the angle of entry so the toy hits the P-spot directly.

Intermediate Technique: Controlling Your Depth

Hands-free doesn't mean "out of control." You control the depth with your body. The toy's length matters. A vertical wall mount often requires a longer dildo to comfortably reach. The position matters. A floor-mounted squat (Position 1) gives you the most precise, millimeter-by-millimeter depth control because your legs are doing all the work.

Advanced Technique: Creating Your Own Mount

Stop being limited by your home's surfaces. Go to a hardware store and get a 2x2-foot sheet of smooth acrylic or plexiglass. It's a portable, perfect surface you can put on your bed, on the carpet, or take with you. For a quick bed-ready mount, grab a large, smooth-bottomed metal mixing bowl from your kitchen. Flip it upside down on your mattress. It creates a stable, raised platform.

Advanced Technique: Temperature Play

This technique only works with toys made of glass or stainless steel. Run the dildo under very warm (not dangerously hot) water for a minute before you mount it. The warm, weighted sensation is completely different from silicone and adds a new layer of pleasure.

Last Words

The best part of hands-free play is the creativity it unlocks. These positions are just a starting point. The real fun is in the experimentation and the "sense of mischief and playfulness". So explore, listen to your body, and find what feels good for you.